{"id":1803,"date":"2013-01-21T08:57:49","date_gmt":"2013-01-21T16:57:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mixhart.ca\/blog\/?p=1803"},"modified":"2013-11-12T10:18:05","modified_gmt":"2013-11-12T18:18:05","slug":"the-gifts-my-bullys-given-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.mixhart.ca\/index.php\/the-gifts-my-bullys-given-me\/","title":{"rendered":"Gifts from a Bully"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_1832\" class=\"thumbnail wp-caption alignleft\" style=\"width: 409px\"><a href=\"http:\/\/mixhart.ca\/blog\/?attachment_id=1832\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-1832\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-1832\" alt=\"IMG_5753\" src=\"http:\/\/mixhart.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/IMG_5753-908x1024.jpg\" width=\"409\" height=\"460\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.mixhart.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/IMG_5753-908x1024.jpg 908w, https:\/\/blog.mixhart.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/IMG_5753-266x300.jpg 266w, https:\/\/blog.mixhart.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/IMG_5753.jpg 2168w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 409px) 100vw, 409px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"caption wp-caption-text\">My tough guy: Pablo.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>Sometimes the most difficult things in life surprise you with the greatest rewards.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I have blogged in the past about my pup <a title=\"Raising a Bully\" href=\"http:\/\/mixhart.ca\/blog\/?p=85\">Pablo<\/a> and his special needs. Pablo&#8217;s breed comes from dog-fighting stock and he has a brain that makes him instantly aggressive toward other dogs. I was an innocent when I adopted Pablo. I believed that dogs were aggressive because of bad ownership&#8211;I had no idea some dogs brains are naturally aggressive.<\/p>\n<p><strong>No one, I repeat, no one will get this until they themselves adopt a<\/strong> <a title=\"The Training of Pablo\" href=\"http:\/\/mixhart.ca\/blog\/?p=27\">special needs dog<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>You might think training a dog is difficult and that you&#8217;re just naturally good at\u00a0it because your dog isn&#8217;t aggressive.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sorry folks, but you lucked out.<\/strong> You adopted a breed that is relatively easy to train (most likely a popular breed, bred to\u00a0be low-key for families). The difference between a family-friendly breed and an aggressive breed is like this: <strong>one is like training a kitten to use a littler box and the other, like \u00a0training a tiger not to stalk goats.<\/strong><\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1831\" class=\"thumbnail wp-caption alignleft\" style=\"width: 397px\"><a href=\"http:\/\/mixhart.ca\/blog\/?attachment_id=1831\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-1831\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-1831\" alt=\"IMG_5752\" src=\"http:\/\/mixhart.ca\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/IMG_5752-711x1024.jpg\" width=\"397\" height=\"572\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.mixhart.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/IMG_5752-711x1024.jpg 711w, https:\/\/blog.mixhart.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/IMG_5752-208x300.jpg 208w, https:\/\/blog.mixhart.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/IMG_5752.jpg 1788w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 397px) 100vw, 397px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"caption wp-caption-text\">My little demon-bundle of love: Fernando<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Pablo is teaching me about dogs. Pablo is teaching me about aggression. Pablo pushes me past my comfort zone to an edge I never thought I&#8217;d be balancing on. To be on the front lines of dog aggression is a scary place to be. I&#8217;ll never like being there. No one would. I believe aggressive dogs should not be bred, period. <strong>If an adult dog is aggressive to humans or other dogs&#8211;do not breed it<\/strong>. This will weed out the faulty brain glitch and we will have a world full of trustworthy dogs.<strong> There are aggressive bully breed dogs and non aggressive bullys. Breed the non aggressive only and we will have no more breed specific bans.<\/strong> I adore Pablo. He is my boy&#8211;but I would not breed him. I believe his instant aggression toward other dogs is a dangerous trait and his lineage stops with him.<\/p>\n<p>Training Pablo is often exhausting and never ending. We have great days and a few crazy ones. Pablo is a special needs dog that I never thought I&#8217;d adopt. Though, <strong>through the training of Pablo, I have been forced to grow in ways I would not have without him.<\/strong> He has taught me so much about being a leader, facing aggression and never giving up.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Something wonderful has seeped from between our fears and tears.<\/strong>\u00a0\u00a0Pablo is also the most intellegent and loyal friend in the world. He is so devoted, obedient and playful. He worries about me, if I am ever uneasy, he will not let me out of his sight.\u00a0<strong>I am blessed each day to come home to his constant companionship and love.<\/strong> The same goes for my other dog-boy, Fernando. Though, now I am beginning to see that Fernando&#8217;s behavior, in general, is much worse than Pablo&#8217;s! \u00a0<strong>But let&#8217;s face it, Fernando is a pug<\/strong> and even on his worst days, when his behavior is deplorable, all I have to do is pick up his squat, cuddly, little body, tuck him under my arm and off we go.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes the most difficult things in life surprise you with the greatest rewards. I have blogged in the past about my pup Pablo and his special needs. 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